The yellow pad...

My friend Bill writes his holiday speech on a legal sized yellow pad. Lots of pages and it's almost always about his family. Big, warm and fun. Being in Florida means we don't see much of each other, I miss them all. This year more.

I am trying to put everything that has happened recently into perspective. So this is going to be my yellow pad.

Once upon a time you were born, grew up and remained in one place. Things change...movable roots. So when you think of your friends and loved ones, how, when and where they entered your life can be enlightening. Some of my friends are from childhood. Many are from other  stages along my life. All seem to have arrived at a propitious moment, just as I really needed the warmth and touch or hug of another. Some you always know, some are rediscovered, some are surprising and always, there are the newly discovered delights. Life is more of a winding road than a long thin line. Every twist leads in a new direction. New connections are made at each  turn. Three people have left my life in the last few weeks, it's gotten harder each time. What happens next will be another turn of the page. It isn't a new start because you will have the memories of those that were loved but are now gone and you still have all those that care for you. 

 My wishes can not be fulfilled, perhaps my hopes can. My sincere appreciation to everyone for your kind thoughts. A special thanks to those that have gone far beyond ordinary concern to try and ease the sorrow. Time will take care of that. Nothing else can. So from the carousel of life one leaves, I remain and rediscovered friends appear...life spins on.

Today is all about family. I'll spend it with my Daughter and her family.  I hope each of you is surrounded by the warmth and care of loving friends and family. Today should be full of joy and laughter. Let the original spirit of the season have free rein...let the party begin. Merry Christmas!