The word "gain" is not in my definition of success, satisfaction is. To reach a goal, to complete a task to one's own criteria. Success.
If I desired wealth, fame or power, then I am a failure. But I am not alone in this totally non-exclusive club. The majority of us are co-members!
So if not the attributes above, what am I looking for? And, what affect does that have on my status?
Respect? Admiration? While that seems somewhat overwrought, do you know anyone not seeking those same things? I like people, meeting and learning about them. So, if I like them isn't natural to want their respect? Their admiration? The only obligation owed is one that is self-imposed. Doing for and helping others makes you feel good. But, only if it's a free will decision.
Years ago one of my friends seemed to be a walking and talking statistic. If a certain percentage of mankind had a problem, his name appeared under each and every heading. But, he just kept on. No wealth, etc.- but he was able to see his way to laughing at the troubles and move on. Admirable, deserving of respect-a success at life.
If you want a guide line to follow, his would be my recommendation.
This is my on line "Collector's Cabinet". It is non-profit and haphazard at best. I leave it to you to sort through and make sense of.The views are mine. The collection reflects some of my interests. But the material must be credited to the vast internet. Otherwise, I never would have been able to amass such a treasure trove. The purpose of this exercise is entertainment, naturally mine, but even more so yours. So, please let me know if anything strikes a chord with you.
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